Who wears the pants?

I’m sure you have heard of this popular game on Hitz.FM. Is a game where a guy answering a girl questions competes with a girl answering a guy question. And the winner is the one who manage to answer the most question right. And if you didn’t know it, the girls have always (almost always :) been winning this game. And the conclusion is “Girls wears the pants” :p yay! Go girls!

I really enjoy hearing the game and trying to answer the questions myself. People have always known me as a feminist, an ever-powerful, ever-strong, ever-in-control girl who believes strongly that woman and man have equal rights. Ever since young, I’ve always been taking over roles in which many believe should be a man’s responsibilities. Even at university, I had lots of fans :) “Anti – Esther fan club” where all the guys goes running back with their tails between their legs to complain and bitch about after losing out to me ;p. Yep, that’s right, it’s so fun

Now, as I grow older, I’m still a feminist. I still believe that woman & man have equal roles in society. And I guess that in a relationship, it’s still the same. That’s why God created us that way. In a relationship, a woman and a man are made to complement each other. There are certain things which man can do and certain things which only woman can do. Women are made to be a companion to the man, and the men are made to love the woman. That’s natural … Some woman believes that they have to be in control in a relationship. I’m not saying it’s wrong, but I think that there might be other ways without wearing the pants *winks*.

So here is my take. I believe that a man and a woman have equal rights but I also strongly believe that in a relationship, a man wears the pants (but the woman holds up the pants)

I’m a feminist or some may call me a post-feminist, and I’m darn proud of it :p

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