I want! I want!

You know its funny sometimes that things happens when you least expect or want it?

I really want something. I have waited for it for years and years. I feel that I truly deserve it and I am ready for it.

And year after year, I’ve met with disappointment and frustration.

Why me? Why not me?

Then I received a revelation. I remembered my purpose and passion. I remembered why I am there, and suddenly what I wanted doesn’t matter anymore. I realized my purpose and that was more important then glory or recognition.

And suddenly, I got what I wanted.

Ironic isn’t it, when you want something, it doesn’t happen but when we finally release it, it comes back to you. I guess the universe is playing a trick on us… Or is it just Murphy’s Law…

But then again, maybe it’s just a reminder that He is always in control…

Till then..

~es~

And they all lived happily ever after…

Do you ever believe that you will finally meet someone, fall so deeply in love and lived happily ever after? Like in all fairy tales..

I grew up as a little girl, watching fairy tales and hopping that one day my prince will come and rescue me on a white horse.. And then we will live happily ever after. Ask most girls or ladies… I’m sure we all grew up with such hopes and dreams…

But reality strikes and we are back with the not-so-perfect guy and then we’ll wonder… what happened?

Some people spend their whole life looking for just the perfect guy and some stay stuck their whole life with the not-so-perfect guy.  So what when wrong?

I got just 1 word for it… Its “YOU”. You need to stop living in a fantasy world. You will end up hurting yourself and your love ones..

So don’t go looking around for the perfect man.. They may never come..

Just look at the one beside you and thank God everyday that He have given someone so special and so unique to love. He may not be perfect, but then again, you are not perfect either… That’s what make life so interesting :p and maybe… just maybe, you’ll discover someone perfect for you…

And they all lived happily ever after…

~es~

The Road Not Taken

The Road Not Taken

by Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I marked the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

~es~

A little tiny voice

Have you ever come to a point in your life when you really know what you want? And you know it’s the best choice that you have made. And you feel the peace within you. But somewhere along the way a little tiny voice make you want rethink, or make you a little unsure of yourselves?

I guess all of us have that little tiny voice that always seem to appear at just the wrong time.

Take this friend of mine. She met this guy, had a few dates with him. He seems such a decent guy. A little bad boy, but just enough to make him interesting. He is not what she expected. She had fun and she wanted to see him more. But then,… a little tiny voice comes in.. And she starts thinking, “Am I making a Big mistake? Maybe I can get someone a little better? Maybe I can get someone a little richer? Maybe I have not consider all the options I have? Maybe, just maybe?”

So many maybes.. But I guess will never know if we don’t try. To just take risk when all odds are against it.. To just have the determination to defy all circumstances and at the end, come out victorious…

That’s what courage is about…

~es~

OH WAIT!!! Did you just hear a tiny little voice whispering ~~ Check out that awesome necklace~~ *winks*

Who’s paying the bill?

When we were young, we do not care. All we want is just to make sure there is food to eat. Lots and lots of food. As we get older, things change a little. We will try our best to get our friends to “belanja” us. It doesn’t matter if we coerce them or flirt with them, as long as we get free meals. Girls, you know what I mean :p And yet, as we get older, we’ll say “ This meal is on me”, just to show off how rich we are. And we will quarrel and argue and fight till the cows come home on whose money the waiter should take. I’m sure all of you know what I mean. It’s simple and part of our lives… and you see it all around…

But then, what about in a relationship? I asked my friends all around me, both guys and girls and I got a wide range of answers. Its funny how some people try to justify themselves as to why they made this arrangements.

Some say they go dutch, or even split the bill 50% 50%; as both the couples earn the same. It’s totally NOT fair for the guy to pay always. Right guys? Then, there is some who says either 30% 70% or 40% 60% with the guy paying a little bit more, just to show that they wear the pants. Or some who let the girl pays for everything. And then, there is this group of guys, the ones that all the girls love, who will pay for everything, till the very last cents.

So now, you tell me, which paying methods works? ……………….

I guess there is no perfect way to look at this. My take is that you guys work out the arrangements between yourselves and ensure that both parties are happy. Make sure you discuss about this will surely curb up whenever an argument arises.

~es~

P.S. My boyfie pays for the bill. But every once in a while, I will surprise him by paying for everything. And he has been very happy about it :p