Dating a Rockstar…

Have you ever hear the phrase “Avoid dating musicians?” Well, if you have not, then you will hear it from me. Girls tend to avoid dating musicians. Nope, they are attracted to musicians *gosh, so much talents* but having a relationship with them can be such a big NO NO to them. Maybe it’s the common knowledge musicians cannot be trusted or that his first love will always be music or maybe is the late nights and girl fans part. Yep, dating musicians can be quite a heartbreaker..

But then again, it’s not that hard. I should know about it *winks* Musicians have certain characteristics that should be known before entering into a relationship. What you need is lots of patience, understanding, persistence and love for music * I’m working on this* wish me luck

So here is my piece of advice..

Love Music. Enjoy listening to the music they are creating or when they play. If you hate their music, you’re signing up for disaster.

Understanding. Understand that part of being a musician means having late night’s activity and thongs of girl fans. It does not mean that they are cheating on you. Understand that sometimes they are so caught up with music and their gig that they may tend to forget you are around. It does not mean that they don’t need you to be there.

Time. Music is a time-consuming addiction more than a ‘job’. Resist the urge to compete for their attention when they are working. Don’t pout and whine that he is always spending time with his music.

Encouragements. Encourage them. Musicians are not superman. They also need the boost of confidence and praises from you, not just from his fans.

Security. You need lots of them. Understand that musicians have had a long-term relationship with the music. Any issues on possessiveness and/or jealousy got to be managed well. Don’t try and block the person from their music. Remember that with musicians, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE NUMBER TWO, even though they tell you otherwise.

 Yep, dating musicians can be tough but then again, musicians are well known for their passion *winks*

~es~

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